Knife in my back

It seams that people really like to talk behind others back. What really bothers me though is how some people are increadibly nice to you to your face, but turn your back and POW you've been stabbed!

The other night some of us went out for a beer, and we met some people we knew there. While they we were all friendly. However as soon as they left, a couple in our group started to really bad mouth them, and I mean bad. That got me thinking, as I look back, these same people are always gosipping about someone when they are not around. It's really disterbing, if that is what they say about others, what are they saying about me when I'm not around.

I know I am not a perfect person, in fact I am probebly the diametric oposite. So there is a lot about me that people can carp about, just like there is a lot of dirt on my friends that I could spread. But that is not how I am. For better or for worse I speak my mind, or say nothing at all. Usualy I just keep my mouth shut because I don't like to stir up crap, but when I have to I will say something, and not behind peoples back. I will tell it to their face.

When you talk behind anothers back you show that you are not to be trusted. In fact you are not a good friend, or a good person for that matter. One day the knife that you put in anothers back will be back in your neck, and you will deserve it.