The Difference

I was thinking about something today, the diference between men and women, the diference emotionaly that is. It's something that I have observed watching the various relationships of my friends and family. Now of course I may be way out in left field, but I think it makes sense.

The big diference is in how men and women relate to love. Women need to feel love, they nedd those little everyday reminders. They need to hear the words, have the little trinkets. It's not a bad thing, it's not selfiish, it's just how they deal with it, love needs to be an obvious thing, something that all can see. Men on the other hand see love. They can sit back and look at their family and know that they love him, it doesn't have to be vocalized, he sees it in they way they act. Of course this may look to some as him being detatched, but that is not true.

I guess you could break this down even further. Women are more public with their emotions, where as men are more private. Neither are wrong, they suit each one fine. Where the problem lies is the tendancy for one not to understand how the other deals.

Now like I said I may be way out there on this, and I probebly insulted everyone by saying it, but like I said that is what I have seen.